It seems like there are two questions here:
How do I get NetBeans to include an image file in the jar produced when I build my project?
How do I access an image file from a jar?
This answer applies to NetBeans 6.8 and addresses both of the subquestions.
Assume that you have an ant based Java Application Project.
Here is the 'Files' view of the project
JP
+ images
+ test.jpg
+ nbproject
+ src
+ jp
+ Main.java
+ test
+ build.xml
+ manifest.mf
Inside your Main.java you have code like this:
public static void main(String[] args) throws IOException {
// find the file in the file system.. probably not a good idea
File f = new File("images/test.jpg");
System.out.println(f.getCanonicalPath()+" "+f.exists());
When you run this project from inside NB you get this output:
/export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/images/test.jpg true
When you run the code packed into the jar, you get something like this:
bash-3.2$ pwd
/export/home/vkraemer/nbhg/web-main
bash-3.2$ java -jar /export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/dist/JavaApplication2.jar
/export/home/vkraemer/nbhg/web-main/images/test.txt false
To get something better when the jar is executed, you need to do the following:
Add the images directory as a source root for you project.
Right click on the project and select the Properties item. A dialog will appear.
Select 'Sources' in the list that is on the left side of the dialog. This will change the content of the panel on the right side of the dialog.
Press the 'Add Folder...' button that appears next to the 'Source Package Folders' table. A FileChooser will appear.
Use this chooser to select the images folder and press the OK button. An entry for the images folder will be added table.
Use the OK button on the Project Properties dialog to accept the changes and dismiss the dialog.
Change your code to use Class.getResource().
public static void main(String[] args) throws IOException {
// find the file in the file system.. probably not a good idea
File f = new File("images/test.jpg");
System.out.println(f.getCanonicalPath()+" "+f.exists());
URL url = Main.class.getResource("/test.jpg");
System.out.println(url);
When you run the project from inside the IDE, you should see something like this:
/export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/images/test.jpg true
file:/export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/images/test.jpg
When you run the code packed into the jar, you will get something like this:
bash-3.2$ pwd
/export/home/vkraemer/nbhg/web-main
bash-3.2$ java -jar /export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/dist/JavaApplication2.jar
/export/home/vkraemer/nbhg/web-main/images/test.jpg false
jar:file:/export/home/vkraemer/NetBeansProjects/JavaApplication2/dist/JavaApplication2.jar!/test.jpg
After you get the URL for the test.jpg file, you can use ImageIcon(URL) to create the icon